Do you want to have better sex? Do you want orgasms so powerful they register on the Richter scale? Do you want to last as long as Sting (or at least your partner) between the sheets?
Well, let me tell you about a natural, fun and effective way of doing all that. Say hello to EDGING!
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What Is Edging?
Edging is taking yourself to the edge of orgasm then pulling back to let the sexual energy dissipate before going again. When you do this multiple times in a session and over multiple sessions, you will build a tolerance to cumming, stretch the length of your intimate sessions and have more powerful orgasms.
While edging is a practice most commonly used amongst men, it works just as well for women. Women have erections in their clitoral organs, and just like men, the increased blood flow to the area from prolonged sex increases the intensity of their orgasms too.
What Will Edging Do For You?
Edging or Orgasm Control as it’s otherwise known has two fantastic purposes;
- Controlling Your Orgasm To Beat Premature Ejaculation: The worst problem a relationship can face is one partner lasting a whole lot longer than the other. Many turn to pharmaceuticals for the answer or, worse still, ignore the problem altogether.
- Bigger, Better & More Powerful Orgasms: Take your sex game to the next level and take your partner to heaven in the process.
EDGING TO THE RESCUE!
Isn’t It Bad To Hold It In?
Contrary to popular belief, edging won’t cause you any harm. When you orgasm at the end of your edging session, all of your sexual fluid will be released. If you don’t cum during your session, the body will break down your ejaculate and reuse it.
Blue balls, aka epididymal hypertension, is where the blood that swells into a penis to create an erection becomes trapped by constricted blood vessels because you haven’t “finished the job”. It’s easily relieved by bringing yourself to orgasm or waiting a short amount of time for the excess blood to flow away from your penis. Blue balls causes no harm other than a little discomfort.
The Technique
Have sex or masturbate as you usually would until you feel yourself getting ready to blow. Then either stop the stimulation altogether, lower it significantly or change the area you are stimulating. Usually, a minute’s break is plenty to bring the peak under control, though if you get back to it and you’re ready to blow immediately, you haven’t waited long enough.
If you’re having oral sex, try kissing your way up and down your partner’s body.
If you’re having full penetrative sex, stop still or pull out.
If you’re masturbating, change the rhythm, stop altogether or stimulate a different part of your body.
You can go for as many rounds as you like. You’re only limited by time!
Be Patient
Edging can be frustrating for the person who isn’t edging as it breaks their normal rhythm and flow, so be mindful of that and discuss the process first.
Win-Win
You can’t lose with this win-win technique. If you mess up and go over the edge, you have an orgasm (winning!). If you get it right, you’ll have an even more fantastic orgasm and impress your partner with your new Sting-like qualities (winning!).
Your Turn!
Alright, my little bunny rabbits. I hope you learnt a lot about edging and orgasm control. Now it’s time for you to start edging towards bigger, better and bolder sex.
So switch off your computer, lock your bedroom door and give edging a go right now.
